Agree with most points!
However 4. is currently possible. I jumped over fire, ice and companions blocking the doorway.
One issue I would like to add - and yes- I know it's minor in comparison to game mechanics but:
Please add more face options. I don't know if it is planned or not, but I was so thrilled to finally play a Drow and the male Drow faces are incredibly underwhelming. It's extremes and none of them done in a great way.
From what I remember, Drow are supposed to be incredibly attractive and that doesn't seem to be the case right now.
Most other races got off way better.