Very rapidly after meeting the staunch Feminist Githankiess, I rapidly opted to permanently terminate her ride on the ship. Has anybody been able to throw her overboard or push her off the boat using a spell of some kind?
All companions in this game are kind of dicky, except Wyll though I haven't interacted with him so much. Larian's goal seemed to be a party full of constant conflict. I inherently dislike Shadowheart and I could never trust her in my party considering she is so openly displayed as a Sharran, and well, she calls herself Shadowheart. I don't particularly like Lae'zel either, but as others have stated, she's not a feminist, if anything she's a race supremacist.
All that said, either you are trolling or you need serious help. Maybe if you didn't act like a creepy incel you'd have better luck with women.