How is the combat too fast when the average fight is filed with 20 minutes of people missing 45 foot ogres that take up half your monitor with arrows from 10 feet away?
I'm not really sure what to do with your opinion on that, dude. Its a lot to unpack in a single line. You're upset that you miss a lot? Size has nothing to do with your chance to hit in the D&D ruleset. But you don't know why you're missing, which is part of what I am saying above. If you could see the fact you were rolling low, you could put it down to a bad streak. Similarly if the ogre in question has 18 AC you might understand that with your meagre +5 to hit you still need to roll 13+ which is statistically less likely.
Some of this info you can see already, but you have to dig in the combat log, which I find takes up more time than if they just showed the dice rolls.