I originally began playing as 'whatever happens, happens', until I realized some of the choices I made led me to life or death situations no matter how proficient at a skill I am. This pushed me to save scumming in my encounters and getting obsessed over the more heavier elements working out well.
But at the end of the day, why does it concern you how others play? I play single player. My story is however I want it to be. My experience is for me alone. That's a rather weak request to worry about other people's gameplay styles. Who cares. lol