Some situations warrant those rolls however. The tadpole and Nettie examples are perfectly fine.
-The tadpole example is the tadpole in your head working against you. Its trying to survive and keep one of its companions alive.
-Nettie is also a very good example of well placed dice rolls. You basicly told a druid that you have a parasite in your head that will change you into a brain eating alien. She doesent have the expertise to heal you and the one person who does, is missing and might be dead. To protect you and others she goes for the most humane option available to her. She is basicly giving you a mercy kill to make your passing as painless as possible while also keeping the people around you safe. Convincing someone in that situation to change their mind SHOULD be insanely difficult.
I think Larian did a very good job here personally
