There's a lot of needless antagonistic and sexist comments in this thread that could go without being said.

Regarding the OP, I found Shadowheart rather agreeable, personally. She's secretive and defensive about her privacy (for good reason, lorewise), but she's got a good sense of humor and likes to avoid conflict. It worked out really well with my character being a snarky rogue.

Lae'zel didn't like my character, but that's because I was generally more compassionate in my options. I want to make a Drow and just treat everyone like garbage and see how she responds to it.