bloody game spiders putting a gun to your head making you reload! Bad spiders you should report it to the police!!
Note don't though I'm sure they'll laugh that a game is forcing you to chose to reload when you can just fight it.
It's not it's you.
I say roll with it! It dares to turn and spot you kill it, laugh at it, then cook it, and eat it! If you a tpk (total party kill) then reload and try again.
It is my fault that game is unbalanced, and every one in my party have 20-30% hit chance? I miss one spell and enemy will wipe me because that spell do 15-30 dmg. And my melee hits are for 6-10 when enemy hits me for 10-20.
And this is not even a dragon or lich.