I find it rather fascinating that for the first time in my gaming career its the female romance options that are the issue. Usually companies only have 1 awful male romance option and we just get to sit and deal with it (or complain loudly on deaf ears).
I sincerely hope you get what you're looking for and that once we get more EA content (or the full launch) there's more options for all of us.
To be fair it hasn't been like this for a long time. BG2 was twenty years ago.