I think there should be less of an argument of making all elves look one way or another and just give both options.
Some traditional looking heads for those of us who prefer an alienness to our elves, and the human like version for those who want to see themselves represented.
I don't agree with it. I dont think a fantasy race needs to represent anything other than themselves, and before you mention, I am mixed race myself.
Still. It doesn't have to be one way or the other. It can be both and everyone is happy.
It doesn't bother me if they have a traditional look. The elves from Dragon Age 2 had a traditional look with larger eyes and pupils and slightly slanted. I can also understand if players want to be represented. Like I said, they can always tweak it but still keep it traditional. Maybe just have the hair and skin color represent race (fair for Caucasians, different shades of tan for Hispanic and Asians and darker complexions for Africans).