I agree on Elves not looking like Elves.

Warhammer 40k did good thing with the Eldar and Drukari (Space Elves)
The old Elders scrols did the same thing until the MMO.

The elven face choices now are something to be put in half Elven subrace.

You also use a to complicated language to communicate with the dumb dumb´s that want shove real world politics in to that.

Elve´s are as alien looking as the grey or xenomorphs are to us or would be to us if they where real. They are a alien form and have to look that part as much as possible you are not to identify with them by looks and appearance!
You as human are not like them and they are not like you.
Half elves are halve human halve elves and elven features get mixed in both then its ok but pure elves no. They have to look alien and out of place because that is what they are! ALIENS! Outlanders, not natives, diffrent.

This is not USA dumb dumb´s look for the top super modle star and you dont choose some one or something related from the looks but what they offer as a class as a race as bonus. What is so wrong with being different? Scared of unique identity?
Why do you have to create a single ugly mass of grey where everything looks the same?