I would love a "House Rule" tab in options where we could turn stuff on / off.
1. Cantrips have surface effects (yes/no)
2. elemental Barrels are in game (yes/no)
3. elemental arrows & bombs are in game (yes/no)
4. food can heal hitpoints (yes/no)
5. drinking potions as a bonus action (yes/no)
6. Shove is a bonus action (yes/no)
etcetera.
This way people who like this stuff can have it and I'll just turn that all off.