Yes they are too masculine, not all women have defined jawlines. Some elves look like transgender humans with elf ears. I'd prefer more feminine versions. But, that is no problem if they let us mod the faces. Extract the face meshes, sculpt non-destructive (preserve the indexes) in i.e. Blender and update the vertices with new coordinates. I did that in skyrim.
Or alternatively just give us sliders...?
I wonder why they don't use sliders. Speaking from experience, it's not hard to implement this and doesn't take much time either. Maybe they use unique meshes for each head, that would be a problem.