After I killed the refugees, she said "come lets kill the druids!" so i just slept instead because I needed to. I came back and couldn't find her, so killed all the druids alone. Then found her back in the cove near the refugee group group behind the stone door. Then she says lets party tonight. So I tried to sleep, nothing. Then had to leave that area, then go sleep and talk to my people, then sleep again.
Basically, doing something that pushes the story forward with companions and restin and stuff might do something for you
