I don't recall seeing any masculine looking ladies in the character creation.
Look at the bone structure...
The heavily pronounced zygomatic bone is a defining masculine feature. Yes, women have it too but not like this. This is just one example.
You remind me of the weirdo on the old official Bioware Social Network who was obsessed with Cassandra looking manly. He used to analyse her skull to try and prove that she looked like a dude. He ended up really annoying David Gaider both on the BSN and twitter