Then you have the fact that most video games give a crappy view on Romance. So there is no real win in any of it..
Let's hope that Larian add a bit more story to these options. The sudden wave of attraction after the raid only works for Lae'zels character.
I think that Games cannot really do a lot of damage when it comes to romance. Social media is much more influential (They are not called influencers for nothing) in that.