Every race looks like a Victoria's secret model in full cosplay. They're just too damn sexy, it genuinely breaks immersion for me. Maybe I'm weird, but I would prefer it if character customization went far enough that I could play as a genetic monstrosity. Or at the very least just a normal looking person. Even the dwarves have just a bit of the sexy virus, sure they're still the squat stout characters that live in storybooks. But when I look in that face I can still see a twink underwear model staring back with a haughty glare.
You may have been looking through the wrong catalogues. I find most of the female faces (I tend to go for dwarf, halfling and human characters) to be pleasant but not devastatingly sexy, with some bordering on plain. The bodies are, well, just digitally-created bodies. Nothing to get excited about. I'd prefer an option to alter them (I still don't hold with slim halflings, it ain't natural), but if that ever comes it probably won't be in EA.
Beyond that... well, sexy is subjective. When people describe someone or some race/species as 'sexy' or attractive I roll my eyes. What I find sexy might well leave you cold and vice-versa. 'Sexy' as a basic description is not terribly helpful when described by someone else.
