Could you please expand on this? I'm interested in a females viewpoint on this piece of content.
Sure. I am a feminist and I have no intent whatsoever on dominating men, enslaving them, torturing them or whatever. Feminism is about mutual respect and freedom.
Honestly, DND has, as far as I know, always been very open and progressive in that regard.
Drow society is a matriarchy, but that is not feminism.