Even though I've mostly pissed off Lae'Zel, Shadowheart, and Asterion, they all wanted to bone me in camp last night. I think that Larian made the "romance" section trivially easy to complete on any run in EA because they wanted us to get "flavor" for the romance.
All of them want kill me. I probably have done something wrong.
Unfortunately, this is the problem of all romances as far as I can see.
Thanks to Larian for Baldurs Gate 3 and the reaction to player feedback