I will probably give Solasta a try. I don't care if BG3 is strict or not when it comes to the rules, but after watching Solasta, that game:
1. looks smooth and accurate in its party management/pathing/order
2. spells look amazing and much better compared to what I'm seeing in BG3. They are a bit longer on the animation and slower on the timings which makes me appreciate looking at the spell so much more.
I'm loving BG3 but Larian seriously needs to take some notes for the above 2 points.