You use a lot of acronyms that I have no idea what they mean.
I think the romance is fine atm, keep in mind that it is Early Access. We don't even have the full game yet. Also keep in mind, it is an RPG, not a dating sim.
There are a large variety of romancing in many different games. Fire Emblem Three Houses is one that has *very little* in terms of romancing your marriage partner, just throw gifts at them and they love you XD. Dragon Age Inqusition didn't have a huge amount either.
I think the amount of romance in BG3 is a good balance, you need to have the romance as an add on, it is not the sole focus of the game. Play a dating sim if you want more romance imo.
Oh sorry, I'm very used to them I forget to write in full, "DTF" is "down to fuck", and "VTM" is Vampire the masquerade, a tabletop game. As I said, romance is not the sole focus of the suggestion, it will always be impossible to please everyone with these things because it's very subjective, but adding depth to all relationships is not exclusively about the romance aspect. It adds to the RPG elements as well as having more simple yet rewarding (maybe, it is, after all, a suggestion based on my preferences) to the game. I might have fared better by leaving "romance" out of the title in this thread, since it is a contentious topic.
