I rarely respond as myself in these games. I play the character according to how I feel they would act in a situation and rarely is a situation black or white, there are always shades of grey.
Which means you enjoy playing neutral characters. Helm and Tyr do not see shades of grey. Helmites see the law, and good or bad the law is law. Lathander sees the light of a new day with new possibilities for good works everywhere.
If everything is a shade of grey -- which I find to be drab color -- the game hasn't implemented alignment.