I made a new character and refused to recruit her twice, but she never showed up a 3rd time before I got to the boat at the end. I only following the "critical path", killing the 3 leaders, and long resting a lot.
I feel cheated. There is one thing I didn't do (talk to nettie, which means no Raphie) and I think I'm going to retry to see if that is part of the trigger.
I never met nettie 1st playthru and still got raphie visit
