I run a party of 3 half wood elves and a full blooded wood elf.
How'd you manage to do that - is that in multiplayer with other people or?
Someone who has run the Course of EA, if you can imagine your party as a completely, intolerable group,
That really barely has time for any race other than Wood Elves and possibly some Humans and High Elves.
Will the choice of helping one side or the other seem logical or go completely against my RP grain?
The issue is more about how little pressure BG3 makes you feel in terms of the parasite - the game doesn't make you care, scared or excited, about the tadpole. If it did, seeing past intolerance etc. wouldn't be an issue as your main concern would be finding help to removing it immediately or desperately so.