Personally I like games that encourage you to accept the consequences of your choices / failures . And BG3 clearly tries to make sure you don't have everything under control. That's what's supposed to make each playthrough a bit different. I'm a huge fan of this choice.
Clearly this is a game where the dice roll decides. While stats may increase the chance to succeed, still these aren't your choices, or failures -- but something random, given by a dice roll. You had some part in it, but not more than rolling a dice.
That's very different from many RPG I played, where was all about which dialogue options you picked as well what you did outside those dialogues. Those were truly your choices.
