I don't agree. You are roleplaying not "option selecting". You pick an option that you think fits with your character's personality. How the world reacts to it isn't in your hand.
Honestly this is what makes BG3 a great game, where there are choices, but not the "Blue for good, red for bad" style that Mass Effect gave you.
In fact, for example, I am in the forest and I see 3 people, one of whom is in agony. I try by discussion to save him. He dies. His friends ask me if I am like them and am I their guide. I tell them yes and in the end he attacks me. In the end, I kill them and I didn't want them dead.
Just because you don't want an out come doesn't make you evil for it happening. Sometimes shit happens. (PS: You have the option to knock people out you know?)
