You ask for things that hurt the feelings of other players. If you don't like the romance of the game, then just don't think about it, ok? I want a good RPG that is better cast scenes than Dragon Age. Larian is doing well (so far), they need support and advice on how to do better, not suggestions to remove cast scenes.
Role-playing in a fantasy world with the changes that you wrote = sh*t, "third Fable" level. Do you like Fable 3? Or is the Witcher and Yennefer better?
There are a huge number of players who are very fond of this opportunity, and the game without it will not be a complete immersion.
Thanks to Larian for Baldurs Gate 3 and the reaction to player feedback