I am glad you didn't get that from their personalities.
I would suggest a different tone in your feedback though, you seem to be taking a very offensive nature, and are making assumptions that are not accurate at all about other people "Says the Assumed Small Town Male".
Like the comment about the jar full of butterflies, interested did any of the male companions come across that way. Did any come across as "Strong Men"
If we are being fair and equal, how about one male & female character who are strong, and another male and female character all bubbly and bright, and full of butterflies
And yes depicting both female characters in a similar light "Strong" as you would describe it, does not help your case or mine.
