Like the points you are making, but again you are assuming so much.
Let's just say I would rather have those resources spent on other aspects of the game, like dialogue, and companionship.
If people want to watch some one in the act of love, then fine, but it can be presumed, I don't see those scenes as a reward, but more of a distraction.
You could lead up to it in dialogue or a cutscene, the scene of the act is not required or needed in my opinion.
If you had a choice between better dialogue or a "In the act scene" which would you prefer?
I want better dialogue and a better focus on the role playing elements personally, and can do without the above.
Right now both are absent, so I am voicing some feedback to encourage one resource focus over another.
But we all have our opinions and feedback.