I think that the exp might be rebalanced before launch and they'll add this.
I hope so. I usually prefer finding a solution where everybody can be awesome to each other instead of having a massive scrap the ruins the décor. IMHO the game shouldn't just be about fighting or preparing to fight. Okay, it's not quite that but too many RPGs feel like they have an undue focus on combat.
The dice-rolls in dialogue are the bane of my life though.