I don't see any real difference between "Remove this" and "Add this" type criticisms to be honest. They're both self-entitled. But this is the forum for feedback and suggestions so it's not like anyone is wrong to suggest things that would make the game better in their mind.
Not going to even argue with your point, because it is irrelevant here. The OP didn't say "Larian please cut this or that", the OP addressed players and told them they were wrong to want what they want, to enjoy what the enjoy, or to feel a sense of accomplishment for what they work to achieve. That is rude, entitled, arrogant, and self absorbed.