It's good feedback, I hope they read it haha. Only thing I disagree on is your soft spot for the Astarion character - this guy doesn't just go straight for the throat as a vampire, but certain other anatomy as well that I'd prefer any male characters stay well clear of...
Jokes aside, the game does cleverly allow you to pick your 'fantasy' romance on character creation. Mine was a fine ass drow gal, because I'm a freak from them drow gals. So here was me thinking that the game would treat me as a regular old straight drow-girl lovin' male. Instead, two innocuous dialogue options into an Astarion conversation at camp and it's 'game on' as far as this guy is concerned. Tone it down? Or just remove it?
Better yet, code the fantasy game to be what I selected in my 'dream girl' part of character creation. Believe it or not, I seem to get a lot Astarion-esque 'attention' in real life. Not hating - each to their own, as long as what I'm into is respected too. But in fantasy, at least, I'd like to think everyone treats me as a straight-up straight, especially when I configured that in the character creation.