It sure doesn't seem one sided with Lae'zel, especially when about an hour ago she approached my guy out of no where and tried to proposition him. Also the thing is this I went out of my way to show zero interest in her and I also went out of my way not to get approval from her. Yet as I mentioned she approached my character out of no where and tried to proposition him, so I would say that for her it is not one sided.
