Good list @Maximuuus. I think it combines "BG-ness" and "D&D 5e-ness," which you kind of mention.

BG-ness would be more "evoking the feeling/playstyle of BG1&2"
-day/night
-add dyes
-better UI
-worldmap
-party size
-party formations

5e-ness would be "is the game using the 5e rules and/or balanced based on 5e-like rules"
-reactions? (idk how reaction/instant spells work in 2e)
-backstab/high ground (kind of. High ground advantage/disadvantage mechanics? 5e-ness. High ground at all? Both 5e and BG-ness. But Larian is obviously not going to remove the existence of high ground)
-HP bloat/AC reduction
-action/bonus action + new actions

Both
-cantrips shouldn't create surfaces
-enemy special attack/items
-less useless items and more d&d items
-scroll usage
-dipping
-dice roll ability scores(?)

At least, this is how I'd quickly sort them.