i had the same problem - my PC is a Lolth Drow Warlock (might make a difference) - and as soon as a pet got into battle he and the quasit i summonded from a scroll (sparky) they were 'friendly' in the sense that i could control them - but if my PC moved past them they wold use a AO on me. After clearing the deugar camp they were still hostile - the solution i had was to kill my PC - combat stopped - if i rezzed combat immediately started again. so i had to kill my PC again. Talked to him with an origin character and then dismissed him. Then i could rez my PC.
EDIT Now it seems i can't summon any familiars anymore - the moment they get summoned the whole party goes into combat.
Last edited by JCLock; 18/11/20 02:33 AM.