Good feedback.
I generally agree with 2 exceptions
1.) I'd prefer to not have QTE for reactions. I'm much more in favor of a toggle option, where the "off" toggle is what larian has now and the "on" toggle is popup prompts (that last until we click them). Would I prefer QTE popups instead of Larian's current implementation....idk, but it doesn't seem to match with the philosophy of turn-based.
2.) As much as I hate to admit it, "Shove" is the person I'm playing with's (a D&D novice) favorite thing in the game. Shove as a bonus action isn't as game-breaking as disengage, especially since BG3 shove doesn't make an enemy prone. And having it as a bonus action allows it to be used more freely=more fun.
However, with the current implementation, when classes get 2 attacks you won't be able to shove twice per turn.
At the very least, Shove should be useable both as an action and a bonus action.