I mean, how high do you have to stack the bodies to get some womens attention.
It's not about the height of the stack, it's about arrangement. I, for instance, prefer many small piles laid out in a snowflake pattern.
And more on topic: the only time playersexuality becomes jarring to me is when an NPC swings one way with the rest of the world, but another way when it comes to the player, and it's never noticed or remarked on. Take Wyll - he's got a sexy female cambion for a mistress/patron, flirts hard with both Lae'zel and Shadowheart, ignores Gale and Astarion, but at the party he (apparently) propositions a male PC exactly like a female one, with no prior indication that he'd be at all interested in a guy. That just looks odd to me.