I have not played more than a handful of computer games, but for those few, I do not recall ever thinking, "Wow, those sexy scenes and revealing wardrobes really made that a great game experience!" On the other hand, I will admit that if such things are prominently put forward in ads and screenshots, I will definitely turn my head to look. Damn those psychology degree majors, now everyone knows how to manipulate me!

The good news is that if BG III does turn out as good as its predecessors, then you will be playing it on and off for the next 20 years, and eventually your son will be able to handle it.