Also just to note, I don't need them to be "sexy." Just good and likeable. I don't care at all about romance in my RPGs. What I do care about, a LOT, is camaraderie, friendship, and brother/sisterhood with my party companions.
I'm pretty sure that Verte was jokingly referring to the spammed "we demand more sexy [whatever]" threads one user produced
en masse. But besides that: +1000 to what you said, couldn't agree more.