Also on a neutral level, I know 100% that Lae doesn't suggest you sleep with her, she says that you "often turn your back on me" or something like that. in general, a neutral level is not enough. Astarion can also reject you with the words " you're not my type." So you either have an approval bug, or your approval is higher than neutral.
With patch 1 or 2 I had Lae on neutral and she clearly wanted to bang my boy. ;-)
I checked it out today and I think it's a bug. I've been playing against Astarion today and I've been constantly getting disapproval from him (wherever possible) and at the party he still offers to "have fun".
The funny thing is that if you offer him to "have fun" then in this case he refuses! he says he has standards and you're not right for him. But if you just ask him "what are you talking about", then he offers you sex. It looks like something is not working properly, such as the approval system. It's the same dialogue, but one phrase solves everything? at a high level of approval, he doesn't reject you if you choose that option. So it's weird...
our relationship with him is literally so bad that i had a dialogue where he wanted to leave the camp, i mean its low. yep. idk how it's work
