The issue is that you are actually rejecting the things that make RPGs RPGs in favour of trying to classify everything as an RPG.
there is really no discussion to have with you on this.
Lol he is actually giving you well defined arguments on what is classified as an RPG, but you can't counter so you say there is no discussion. Personally, I find Ayvah's arguments interesting. He also makes excellent points in regards to the personal bias of some in their definition of what is RPG.