I find BG3 combat very easy really but of course it is some messed up version of 5e (if even that).

Coming from playing so many different TTRPG's since the 80's (D&D being the main one since 2nd ed on up) this is simple. NOW if you think BG3 is hard, for those who have not tried playing TT D&D I suggest, if possible, you do. Then we can talk and compare.