People make passes at parties and not while killing goblins -- right?
The companions are perfectly willing to flirt with each other while out killing goblins, it's only the poor PC who gets left out. :P
The PC does get a few pre-party opportunities to flirt in camp at night, which seems reasonable to me.
True. I like Shadowheart's flirtations with and then rejections of Wyll. And yes I do like the camp flirtations and wouldn't mind more of those.
I'm just not experiencing the whole "where did this come from" thing that others do. It's easy to say no and hard to get them to say yes. And do love Astarian's rejection lines . . .