Yeah, I'm sorry I brought up the dreaded word. I was mostly thinking about the different attitude towards this compared to Baldur's Gate II and today. BG:II had characters who didn't romance the PC if they were x or y. The real problem there was it just wouldn't happen, because all the companion conversations were all banter timer/triggers, you were either eligible for or not, instead of what I hope is more common today, having the game deal with it in a more conscious way.
The biggest place this intersects with the EA is Lae'zel or a Gith PC. I'm not a Githyanki expert but based on Lae'zel's and the Dragon Knight's attitudes, they seem to be Githyanki chauvanists, which just makes me view all their interactions with non-gith through a rubric and be especially conscious of anything inconsistent with that attitude.
