AAAANYWAY, staying on topic, before despairing I'd like to remind the community of that we're getting more companions that are good alignment later on. I'll hope that the dissatisfied lads (and ladies) here gets to see a female companion more to their liking when that those arrive. I mean, I would really see why Larian would withhold a more standard female cookie cutter option (like Lohse <3 ) from EA as they want to see the player data from romance with SH, Lae and Minth - so do not despair just yet.
Thanks! Unfortunately, we aren't having as many companions as BG1 or 2. Karlach, the werewolf halfing, Minsc and possibly 1 or 2 more are all we can look forward to seeing in the future. So, if the current trajectory and bias holds, Shadowheart will remain the sole "male gaze" content.
