I was joking about the "dating your co-workers thing" I am so so so sad that you guys took it seriously. I think I died a little inside at the wall of words person that took that seriously.
No, you don't get to be flippant and blame Dez and me for your poor communication skills. Be clear next time, and not end an irrelevant or insulting statement with a smiley as if that will smooth things over, or convey your meaning. It's your fault if you aren't being clear, not the reader, doubly so when attempting humour that falls flat.
Within the rules of the forum I can be however I want and you don't really have any control over that. I have observed within gamer culture a certain strain of toxicity that manifests as 1) lack of self awareness 2) taking oneself too seriously 3) inability to experience joy. I'm not saying that applies to you but I don't know how else to end this sentence...
You are welcome to not interact with me. I will find some way to soldier on I am sure. :P
