Dont try and pander to all age groups and gender and racial groups just write what you want!!!!!! leave politics out of the game!!
By the way, Astarion is a xenophobe.
I don't think Larian is pandering to american players. Bi characters are in many games, so people have a choice. But it doesn't make the characters lighter and softer, and it doesn't really affect their personality. This is why many complain that the phrases or scenes do not change for a player of a certain gender.
As for the cutscenes, I like them. Seriously, the facial animations, the gestures, the acting, everything here looks good. There are glitches, but this is EA, so...
But you seem to be discussing the content itself? Dialogues? They seem to be done in a rather classical manner, don't they? I would say this is like DOS2 + DAO. Many of the dialogues at the moment just reveal the identity of our companions, and I would like to see more.
Dialogues outside of the camp definitely work in an incorrect way, when you can get only one opinion. I also want them to get involved in situations more often.
I believe that only Astarion and Lae are aggressive with regard to "sex", and this is in their personality. I have never seen a girl write here that Lae is too aggressive and persistent. Are you sure problem is characters, not in you? You are literally asking for a change their personality that would suit your tastes. Their aggression is not a tribute to LGBT people. It's not about that.