DOS2 for me surfaces kinda work cause the game is balanced around it and it feels like part of the game. When i debilitate an enemy or get hit by themit feels like a fun challenge, BG3, partly cause of me coming from DND and BG1+2, it doesn't feel natural to the game and instead of feeling like a part of the experience I can enjoy, it feels frustrating and antithetical to other aspects of the game. If a non Eldritch Knight fighter can cast spells more often than a wizard, and a rogue can heal more than the cleric, it doesn't feel like dnd or even a game based on dnd.