No one is asking them to fix everything here and now.

But it’s not too much to ask for clear statements about what they intend to to about players’ feedback.

Are they under the impression that controls and UI are fine as they are?
Do they think their… peculiar flavor of home brew rules are enhancing the game for everyone?
Do they feel like cheesy mechanics are a fucking riot and they should stay as they are?

It’s not unreasonable to expect answers at some point.
We are almost a year into EA and “waiting patiently” is not going to do us any favor except being forced to take a “TOO LATE NOW TO CHANGE ANYTHING ABOUT THIS” several months down the line.

Party control in Baldur's Gate 3 is a complete mess that begs to be addressed. SAY NO TO THE TOILET CHAIN