I think I have bugged out the game and made this quest line impossible to complete. Here is how I went through this:
1. Saved the goblin sizzara from taking a crossbow to the face
2.Took her back to minthara, agreed to help with the raid cause i wasn't trying to fight a lv 4 Drow. Also note sizzara was killed here. Also note Minthara ran off here.
3. Went to talk to priestess Gut and killed her in her chambers due to sleeping potions not working on elves, so no body guard throat cutting stuff (I think this may have caused the bug)
4. Went back to the grove and accepted the quest to find Haslin the druid or however you spell his name.
5. Rescues the bear man and freed him. At this time the goblins and the grove were friendly towards me.
6. went back to the grove to meet the bear druid and he wasnt there.
7. Went back to the goblin camp, all goblins still friendly, hes not there.
8. Decided to kill the second goblin commander, mr big red man. After killing him all goblins became hostile.
9. Killed every single goblin in the goblin camp.
10. Now I cant find Haslin or Minthara and can't move on with the quest. I need to find haslin to "ready the defences" but it appears hes waiting for me to kill Minthara but she ran off and I cant find her.
11.??????
Anyone had this happen to them? I think by being an elf and not falling asleep with the sleep potion and not triggering the cut scene with Gut I caused a bug.