Dear Developers, Dear All,

[Warning! Spoilers ahead]

I was playing a male character, in this play through. A Cleric of Selune.
I got rid of Shadowheart early on (she is not traveling with me but stay in the camp, as i cannot get her to leave - why?),
sent away Astarion when he tried to...
and Lae'Zel and I do not agree too often. - So understandably I do not have a great reputation with them.
As I try to play a good character, mostly Gale and Wyll agree with me.

So we killed the "gobo leaders", and we had a party with the Tieflings.
On that Night, Lae'Zel told me, that i can be sorry, that I turned her down so many times...
Talking to Gale, he tried to offer me his services... And I was quite surprised, as I never had this before.
And then talking to Wyll, "Tav" had the option to get him to his Bunk... and I was like: WHAT? - This is too much.

I absolutely respect if someone is like that, and prefers it that way, and I think it was quite fun from Astarion (in previous playthroughs), as he is a Spawn, calls you Darling all the time...
But getting offers from the other two guys in the party was a bit too much for me. - as I respect if someone prefers that, so do I expect to be respected for NOT prefering that.

So I was thinking how could this be tweaked so, that it better suits everyone's taste.

Here is my idea:


Tell me, whom do you dream of at night?
I think this could be a great filter.

If we select a female character (the woman of our dreams), we should get (and be able to offer) romance invitations with females.
If we select a male character (the man of our dreams), we should get (and be able to offer) romance invitations with males.

Now I also think, that Astarion being a neutral one would be generally fun, if we keep him in the party, and you have a high enough reputation with him.
And maybe another female Origin character (added later) could also be neutral, just to keep the balance.



I generally think the game is meant to be fun, and it really is, but for me, getting offers only from male characters in my party, as a male, is not something I prefer, and I am sure, a lot of others think the same. In my opinion, its better not to get any offers then get the "wrong" ones.

With my above idea, I think everyone can get what they prefer, (and not get what they do not prefer).

As said, I respect if someone feels the other way around, (and with the above we can keep him/her happy), but I also expect to be respected for not feeling that way.
And with the above, we can also keep me/us happy.


Thank you for reading.

Last edited by NemethR; 19/08/21 11:02 AM.